Frequently Asked Questions
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Frequently Asked Questions
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Questions about WHO the Internal Filter® Workshop can benefit:

The current Workshop is geared for young people ages 12 and up. 

Digital filtering and parental oversight are crucial, but they are merely the "training wheels" of your child's learning!

The ultimate aim? A child who chooses wisdom with tech, even when parents and digital filters are absent. This Internal Filter is their most powerful protection, and the unique focus of the Workshop

YES! The Workshop will walk your child (and you) through essential training topics, including:

  • Dangers of Pornography
  • Social Media
  • Importance of Stillness
  • Smartphone Etiquette
  • Gaming
  • Doing Good with Tech
  • By the end of your child's experience, they will have read and watched powerful materials, journaled online about what they have learned, been prompted to chat with you on critical topics, and walk away with a written plan with family and personal tech rules that they can really embrace.

    It is never too late to embrace smart tech use! The Workshop is a powerful experience for young people, regardless of their level of screen access. There is always hope for individual progress and improvement.

    It should be noted that we do not operate in the realm of addiction recovery. If you suspect that your child does demonstrate some kind of true addiction, we recommend help from a competent licensed professional.

    Questions About the Internal Filter® Workshop Experience

    Purchase one seat per child who is currently ready to experience the Workshop. (Every additional seat is offered at a greatly reduced price). You do not need to purchase seats for parents. There is no expiration to Workshop access, allowing your child to progress at their own pace, as well as revisit the Workshop for needed refreshers!

    The Workshop is a powerful, thorough, go-at-your-own pace, online experience. Your child will experience 8 Modules organized by topic.

    As your child progresses through the Workshop, you will be notified via email each time a Module is completed. This email will provide a summary list of any parent-child “chats” that should happen in connection with that Module, as well as a recap of all journaling that they have entered online. This is one of the most powerful aspects of the Workshop, providing a means for parents to be intimately involved in the Workshop experience!

    Module 1: Orientation
    A “bird’s eye” view on why our choices with tech matter in the grand scheme of life. An introduction to the idea of strengthening the Internal Filter. Bottom line? Wisdom with technology = happier life.

    Module 2: Tech is AWESOME!
    Tech is good! Includes wise online surfing principles, how to do good with technology, and a tour of fabulous sites for young people on the web.

    Module 3: Social Media Savvy
    Includes surprising video content on how social media companies try to keep us on their platforms for as long as possible, and the alarming effects of excessive social media use on mental health and body image. Strong emphasis on online kindness!

    Module 4: Taming Gaming
    Includes warnings on the time-sapping, brain-numbing effects of excessive gaming, and an opportunity for honest self-assessment of the young person's own gaming habits.

    Module 5: Pornography
    Includes unforgettable expert testimony on the destructive effects of pornography. Powerful parent chat prompts about real love, healthy sexuality, and how pornography is a counterfeit to these beautiful human experiences. Includes messages of hope and encouragement for young people already struggling with the effects of pornography consumption.

    Module 6: Cell Phones 101
    Includes materials on cell phone etiquette, stark warnings about texting while driving and the trends of sexting and sextortion. Also includes the printable My Tech Plan, a powerful exercise in which your child will create their own plan for managing technology, guided by family rules and their own personal inspiration. (This element alone is priceless.)

    Module 7: Be Still
    Includes materials on the value of stillness and meditation in life, and an opportunity for the young person to create their own “be still" experience.

    Module 8: Story of My Life
    The pinnacle experience of the Workshop, during which the young person voice/video-records their most deeply held hopes and dreams for the future regarding their school experience, marriage, family, career, and who they really want to become. A permanent and potent reminder that today’s choices with tech translate into tomorrow’s reality.

    Outstanding tech-related religious and spiritual materials are located in the Parent Portal as an optional addition to your child's Workshop experience. Highly recommend checking them out!

    Each Module follows this pattern of learning:

    First, your child will consume strong and convincing materials, curated from online sources. These materials include videos, articles, news stories, online quizzes, scripture, research studies, and spiritual messages all organized by Module Topic.

    Second, your child will be invited to further digest these materials through various means, including the pondering of thought-provoking questions, the observation of how technology impacts real people around them, and trying out or practicing various good practices related to technology use. Their opinions will be strengthened through journal writing, and the all-important “chats” with a parent.

    The result of this process is that the young person begins to form a personal belief. These strongly held personal beliefs are the bedrock of a robust internal filter.

    With steady engagement, most young people complete their experience in less than 2 months. The Workshop is a go-at-your-own pace online experience navigated by the young person, and supported by a parent or other mentor. Because of this, the pace at which it is completed can vary. Taking more time is great!

    We recommend a regular, steady interface with the Workshop as opposed to a gulp-it-down-as-fast-as-possible approach. This will lead to more internalization of all that the Workshop has to offer.

    Feel like you CANNOT take on one more thing? Never fear! This wisdom is your child's responsibility to gain, with you as their support. If you can make yourself available for priceless "chats," as prompted by the Workshop, the rest of the work has been done for you. Your primary responsibility? Listening. Avoid excessive micromanaging, and lecturing. This is their gig.

    Once you have purchased your membership to the Workshop, you’ll have immediate parental access to the entire Workshop through the "Parent Preview" section of the Parent Portal. You will also have access to valuable resources via the Parent Portal.

    Questions About Your Child:

    Even the prickliest of teens might be surprised by the thought-provoking materials that have been curated for the Workshop! Designed to appeal to a young audience, the Workshop synergizes engaging video, inspiration, fascinating articles, and eye-opening scientific data on the power and pitfalls of technology use.

    Insisting upon some work and study before handing over powerful technologies represents the BEST kind of parental love. This is not a tug-of-war or a fight. This is rock-star, confident parenting… moving beyond fences and fear in favor of helping your magnificent child become someone who can choose goodness.

    Still getting a refusal? Dialing back privileges may be in order. It's okay to expect some "driver's ed" before handing them the keys to the "car." =)

    More important than what your child says... this is your golden opportunity to prove yourself a safe and enjoyable person to talk with about important (even uncomfortable) topics.

    Listen like a champ. Praise their growing wisdom and insights. Ask questions, not as an interrogator, but as one who believes in that child’s tremendous capacity to embrace truth. Resist the urge to dominate the conversation, and avoid criticism like the plague.

    This experience is not an exercise in coercion or forced learning. It is an opportunity for a wise parent to encourage the child's digestion of truth. In this way, they come to own these truths. And owned truths are the bedrock of the internal filter.

    If at first you get one-word “grunts” during chats with your child, take heart: they are probably absorbing more than you think they are!

    Unfortunately not! Can they choose to make poor choices? Absolutely. But as parents, it is our opportunity to give them their best shot at good choices by providing inspiring, thorough, unapologetic training.

    In our experience, caution (not fear!) and organized teaching are crucial. Have you ever met a parent who wished they had granted their child full access to a smartphone earlier?

    The Workshop is a powerful tool to measure your child's readiness for a smartphone. Listen closely during your "chats"... what is your child's posture toward the things they are learning? These observations will help guide your decision as to when your child will be ready. In our experience, later is better.

    We are huge fans of the “talk/text-only phone first” approach. With text/call only capacities, these phones can give you a peek at just how impactful phone-ownership might be for your child, and gradually ease the young person into browser-enabled smartphone ownership when you see fit. Our favorite first phones: Gabb Wireless, Troomi, and Pinwheel.

    In our own family, talk/text-only phone ownership came first during the middle school years, with browser-equipped smartphone ownership coming when our children were well into their high school years. More on our family's step-by-step plan to granting a smartphone here.

    If you are thinking about granting full smartphone ownership to your child, here are some things to consider:

  • How aware is your child of the potential for pornography to endanger future relationships and happiness?
  • Does your child value face-to-face interaction enough to put tech away and have real interactions with friends or family?
  • How does your child manage the technology they DO have access to? Are they able to accept limits on gaming? Computer use? Can they be trusted to self-limit time on tech devices?
  • Does your child demonstrate the capacity to function happily and creatively most of the time without technology?
  • Is your child learning to incorporate practices of quiet, stillness, and tech-free time into everyday life?
  • Does he/she have an appreciation for the value of “stillness” and “being present?... enough to make room 

    The Internal Filter Workshop experience provides exposure to these ideas in appealing and hands-on ways. Experience the Workshop with your child. Get a sense for where they stand on important matters. Then, trust your gut. You’ve got this!

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    Powerful training to strengthen the Internal Filter®.
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    Is it time?

    Powerful training to strengthen the Internal Filter®.

    Get the Workshop